Child custody
Often
the most difficult and contentious aspect of a divorce is the custody
of children. The issue of custody is complicated and depends on many
factors. In many cases, some form of joint custody is arranged, though
in cases of abuse or other cases where cooperation of the parties in
parenting matters is an issue, sole custody can be the appropriate alternative.
There is no firm legal definition of joint custody; that definition
is negotiated in each unique divorce proceeding. Amil Alkass is
skilled in this area of law and can guide you carefully through the
process. In the simplest definition, custody means decision making authority.
It is advisable to have a document that sets forth what types of decisions
require joint input. The custodial, or residential parent, should have
authority to make all routine day-to-day decisions such as bed time,
signing permission slips for class trips at school or making doctor
appointments. Both parents might decide to share decision making authority
on major issues such as elective surgery, religious upbringing and post-high
school education options. In all instances, whether custody is sole
or joint, the parents have an obligation to inform each other about
matters affecting the children, including dates for parent-teacher conferences,
school events and progress in school.
Develop a custody arrangement that meets your child's
best interests.